I really worry when you mention his financial screw ups. I also Really worried about Big Lots.
Barb - yes, it's a worry. Since I am frugal and responsible by nature, whereas he grew up with money and always made money easily, so he didn't value it. And he was an alcoholic and made some very bad choices.
I am waiting to see how he does now. He's been sober 3 years, works his program diligently, is very insightful and self-aware. And yes, he does speak my love languages, but it is totally sincere - he's really an open book.
I'm really more worried about whether he'll start spending again once he's making more money (he says he'll out-earn me in a year and I believe he can).
