LA we had some discussion. I didn't know the right answer. She maybe thought we didn't need to pay it. I said I tend to agree. That I'd rather spend the money on something we need if the fee doesn't help our cause etc..
So did you 2 come to consensus?
'She maybe thought'...do you know what she thought, did she say what she thought?
Do you see this might have been a place where the 2 of you could work together to problem solve?
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She asked me about a neighborhood fee that was due if we should pay.
Unless there was more to the conversation, it sounds like you said 'deal with it' in a sort of nonanswer-answer way.
Can you see why she may have gone to bed without saying anything else? Yes, it's a childish way of handling an issue but it got your attention.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
