Wow JP!
Your W seems to be moving a little closer to you. I totally agree with AS. You have got to put your bog boy pants on and take charge of you. I think you could really have a chance with W if you can become the strong postive JP we all know that you can be. She has to see a confident person who is working on themselves. I know you woory about her talking to OM, but I eally beleive if you become the best you and confident person that you can be that your W will respect you more and eventually understand why she can't talk to OM. Its about respect for y'alls marriage.
You can do this!!


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it