Just to add.. earlier in my sitch I was so devastated that I turned to my friends for support. Except a very few, they all say the same. "You deserve better, you should move on" When you hear your friends say that when you are at the bottom, you get confused. After DB-ing, I decided to not tell them my sitch in detail. They still still tell me to move on and I just say "Thank you for caring about me" and that's it.
They are just in awe that we are splitting up because we looked like a PERFECT couple to them. They see I'm not moving on and think H must have a stone head and is an idiot for leaving me. But the truth is.. they don't know how our m really was. They don't know what I went through or what H went through. Just like AS pointed out, your W was unhappy for 6 years! That's a long time. You have to think what you think you stopped doing after 2 years of marriage. She remembers that she had been unhapppy for 6 years so she must have been happy for the first 2.
This is the time to think about what you want too. You said she pointed out that you have different goals. You wanna settle but she doesn't. Do you think she never ever wanted to have a family or do you think she would have wanted to start a family if she was happy in the marriage?
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
