There are many on here who haven't had sex with their spouse for years. If you can't handle that part of it, then get a D and you can have sex as much as you want.
I get dizzy from all the different implied legal or moral rules different people have about when it's OK and not OK to have sex. You can legally have sex with anyone you want, married or not, as long as it's consensual and they are of legal age. So you seem to be preaching that it's not OK to have sex outside of your marriage, even if your spouse refuses to have sex and is practically separated from you, but it IS OK to have as much sex as you want, with as many people as you want, if you are not married -- which a whole bunch of other people would strongly disagree with. So by your rules, if I had a girlfriend, I can still have sex with as many other women as I wanted, as long as I made sure I didn't "tie myself down" by getting married.
Or is your advice mainly based on some legal trouble you can get into in a divorce proceeding, where a spouse can claim things because you "cheated" and they did not? That I could understand.
But if it's just the moral of not hurting people's feelings, I'm not sure a spouse is going to feel a whole lot better because you divorced them so you could have sex, rather than just having sex with someone else while still married, as long as you where honest with them about what you were doing.
