AS to the rescue! ^^ agree. I always thought any kind of affair would be a deal killer for me before any of this happened, maybe because I thought we were happy.
I'm still hurt H started seeing somebody after we were separated but I know it's not a deal breaker if he honestly wants to come back to me. If he feels obligated to come back to me out of guilt, that WILL be a deal breaker for me.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins