Ugh. Talk at MC about reigniting our sex life, MC worked with W on importance of initiating, and with me on how to ask more effectively, got the assignment that we would use last night and tonight (before we go on vacation with kids) to test these theories out. Man, I was really excited! Had a bottle of wine and cooked steaks with W, really nice night, then at about 8 W pulls me aside and tells me she just got her period and she was letting me know now so I wouldn't expect anything later. As I said, ugh. Not her fault, obviously, and I told her thanks for letting me know. Still made a point of going to bed with her so we could read in bed and fall asleep together.
Also, I had several opportunities to check her FB account last two days, but didn't. I know she is still "wrapping the warm blanket around her even though it is warmer now outside" but it tortures me more than anything and I need to be able to keep PMA.
Family vacation in t minus 23 hours...
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"