T - That is a great attitude. I find myself being the skeptic and looking the gift horse in the mouth all the time and I know that is not helpful.
In your case, a clear sign from your W would have been going to IC to get some help, and yet, the reaction is, will it really make a difference? Well, will it make it worse? Is it a good sign of her trying to commit? Maybe, but hard to see it as a bad thing, yet you (and I, beleive me) are too quick to look for the negative. I am proud of you for your realization of that and attempt to change it!
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
