Hi TVS ~ just reviewing your sitch. I cannot imagine being in your household during this difficult time. How are your boys? How is your H towards them? does he spend any time with them or is he so consumed with TT? How is h towards you? How are you towards him? What DB strategies are you using currently?

Sorry for the questions.... I just empathize with you and wonder how you get through the day.

(HUGS)

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)