If she says she feels she did something wrong dont' disagree! Validate. Or, at the least omit the part about saying she did nothing wrong. Let her process her own part in what she did or didn't do.
The questions she asked you are VERY insightful! You did a good job trying to give her your truth without trying to defend yourself. Taking responsibility is good.
You are growing, jp. Give yourself more time. Time for everything and be care to yourself too. Don't beat yourself up for the past. Move forward--a baby step at a time!
Thank you, I have posted the conversation in full if you would like to read it.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
