Ellie,

Sounds like your Love Language is "words of affirmation". He sounds like he is saying just what you need him to say. Only you know if he is sincere or just practiced.

I really worry when you mention his financial screw ups. I also Really worried about Big Lots.

Check these guys out carefully before getting too involved - I worry about you. Sounds like you want someone for the long haul so be sure you're getting what you really want.

Barb