You may get bits and pieces of your old h back, but he may very well have a mix of some of the mlc traits too. The question will be when that time comes is "do you like the new and improved h and can you live w/him as he is now, not what he was a long time ago?"
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
