My H talks about me to his OW often you know, so he can tell her how much he's not in love with me anymore. Back when I was still pursuing, and sending him heartfelt emails, HE FORWARDED THEM TO HER!!! She would respond, "great" person that she is, "Gee, mizjay sounds like such a wonderful person, I just wonder why you don't love her anymore."
Needless to say, I don't email H anymore. Although, actually, the last 2 times I did, I cc'ed OW
I'll be thinking of you this weekend TVS, sending good vibes your way. My H has a four day weekend which he is spending at the casino instead of attending S16's State track meet event. I never know if the casino includes a visit from OW, who lives about 3 hours from there. I just assume that it does.
Peace
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.