Basically, TX lets you have a divorce no matter what if that is what one of the partners wants. Basically what JAG was saying is that after I got served, he'd be able to push things forward really quickly, particularly since we don't have kids, and at the time he was saying he wanted a divorce, he was also planning on deploying in the next few weeks. Because of that JAG was saying he'd be able to accelerate it.
It's entirely possible that I misunderstood them -- I was really panicked when I spoke with them.
Me: 30 H: 29 M: 2 yrs T: 5 years BD: 12/14/12 Divorce talk begins 1/6/13 I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since