Well things took a bad turn.I was talking to my sixteen year old son about her when I thought she left for work but she had not.Any way what I said was not nice.I know that was a terrible thing to do.She has not been back home since.It took a few days before the angry text stopped.Things seem to be going the wrong way.I have made up my mind to stop complaining about her especially to kids.I know that was very wrong.I am just going to concentrate on changing myself and helping our two teenage boys.I have little hope of saving the M right now.