I had hoped to respond to you before you went to work today... Happy little friday for you, BTW.
Hi Kaffe, Well it is big little friday for me because i have the day off work!. It is one of the things i have started to do for me with the intention of using the spare time to GAL...
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Guys seem to have a tendency to make all the decisions or make none of the decisions. We're dumb, that way... lol Brings up the story about only enough blood... anywho...
I'll look that one up....
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
If you could back your truck up, how would you have acted in regards to the PARTNERSHIP of M between you and your W?
I will have a think about that. Quickly though, i would have liked to have spent more time communicating, planning, goal setting? So, more collaborative is how i wished i had been i suppose?
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Also, since you avoided guessing at what the exercise might be for, regarding the list of things one likes about a spouse, it basically can cause the spouses to emotionally attach. By having to think about what they DO like about the other spouse, how ever minor it might be and also they can get affirmations of appreciation by hearing the positive items.
I wasn't really avoiding guessing....just thinking about it. I ran out of time to post anyway.
My initial thoughts when i read what you wrote about writing down things i liked about my wife was..."What? that is torture....i can't stop thinking her as it is." I would need at least a page.
Are you suggesting that i try and do this together with W? Because that is very unlikely to happen at the moment....sadly.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014