Before you answer yes to her, are you willing to tape your mouth?

The ONLY way you should entertain meeting with her to talk would be in order to listen, possibly validate, and then tell her that you will think about what she said and that you have to go do [ insert something that you plan to do that is valid in order to remove yourself from an awkward situation where you think you should speak, when really you shouldn't ].

Be completely honest with yourself on whether you can NOT say anything, just listen. Can you do that?