I think you can probably anticipate a pull back from her. How big, you will find out. But for now, just drop it completely.
You know when you make that really stupid comment about how hot that chick is at the end of the bar to your buddy... just as the music drops as the dj switches the album... yah... that's what you did.
Simle, wave, back away from the nice lady and then pick yourself up with confidence and move forward the way you were.
Given enough time, she'll probably reach out again to be a little more available. Hopefully she won't do something equally dumb and change her mind on SS visit and contact.
