"It doesn't seem like anything Im doing is having an effect on her. She is also talking to her divorced and cheating friends all the time for support, and I think that is keeping her from being able to see any changes in me."

No. This is why she doesn't want to see any changes in you...

"I got mad, went to the kitchen where she was sitting. I asked her if she wanted to talk, she said no. I asked her if she wanted intimacy, she said no.

I then told her she was being passive aggressive and that if she thought I smelled bad to just tell me and to tell me to take a shower. Then I told her to smell me, put my armpit towards her and hugged her. She freaked out, punched me, kicked me, grabbed my throat. I backed off, she said she was going to call the police. I said I was going to take a shower."

This was just 3 months ago.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER