I don't want to be over-defensive, though. I have asked this forum over the last two weeks about D paperwork, but I haven't been talking to her about it all that time. I dropped the rope for a long time. I've been doing my best to DB, but now that she has filed for D, I feel like I need to take care of myself. If I don't do what she has close to begged me to do and collaborate on the paperwork, she has threatened to make things ugly. So I'll go along with it. She is in love with another man. There is nothing I can do to change that or affect that in any way. Your comment really has me stirred up. I'll keep working on my attitudes and actions.
