Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[dorightman]

She said she didn't want to live with me, but I've done a lot of work on myself since then. I understand her reservations based on the past. She is still acting cold and indifferent to me. She wants to talk in front of her C next week. I'm sure it will be the same story, I want a D, I want to sell the house, I don't feel in love with you.......

I guess I need to keep with Sandi's rules right? It doesn't seem like anything Im doing is having an effect on her. She is also talking to her divorced and cheating friends all the time for support, and I think that is keeping her from being able to see any changes in me.