Bond.. he is this way ONLY to me, anyone else he is "acting pleasant" too. If a friend, or our daughter enters his "space" he puts on a smile & says "hello". So, I do take it somewhat personally. He needs to welcome me with a smile too!
KD... GAL is pretty good, I go to church, I pray (BIG 180's), visit neighbours often, and other friends too, I go to co-d meetings (although I am not sure I will continue as it is a share group, not lessons to be learned), may try a divorce recovery group too, try to spend time with DD, etc.
The coffee/snack was pleasured business. We were killing time between clients back at our home, he offered coffee and came out with coffee/ crackers & cheese/ then cookies. How do you want me to watch my boundaries? After our light snack while working and short social time with his parents, I went back to work, and then left shortly thereafter. Thanking him for the light lunch.
Yes, Saturday will be business. We will not have weekends off as a regular rule as it is typically an expected business day in our industry. If he suggests we need to go again, I will go and look awesome and pleasant too. Yes, in a business kind of way.
TX!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
