"ok... today was not much better. H is very irritable (lack of sleep, etc), but to keep taking it out on me??? UGH.... He never says Hello when we see eachother, or Goodbye either. Today, I got a "dismissed" back hand wave after I said my happy bye."
Just because he doesn't say 'hello' or 'goodbye' doesn't mean that he's "taking it out on you". He just doesn't feel like saying it. Stop taking it so personally. I don't know how many times we can tell you that it's NOT you, but him.
"So... the only way I see to be is happy and disregard his mood (as he can OWN it, indepedently of me). He needs to know, I don't take his crap anymore & therefore won't be around for it,...correct?"
Yes, BUT only during those times that he outright disrespects you. Not saying hi or goodbye aren't those times.
I did not ask why he was irritable, or ask what the "business action plan" was for today... I just left, pleasant.
H was so nice the other day, then yesterday & today so miserable & Yesterday was a FANTASTIC day financially for us... what makes him think he can be rude & irritable at me? What did I do wrong that he feels he can do this?
Is this part of MLC script or something?"
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
