But, I think in order to move forward it is helpful to take the focus off of your feelings for your W altogether. It doesn't mean those feeling don't exist, it is that they need to leave the forefront of your mind so you can focus on yourself.
This just *clicked*. Thanks!
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
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