I hope you don't think I'm bashing you or trying to push you too hard to move on.
Not in the least. I very much appreciate your - and everyone's - thoughts, input, and perspective. Genuinely.
Originally Posted By: Spartan
What are some of your short term goals?
Some of these are more tangible than others, but here are some of my goals that come to mind:
Move to a larger place for me and the girls.
Finish up my MBA (Dec).
GAL (hopefully facilitated by the above bullet point).
Get promoted.
Get a larger vehicle.
Go on one "excursion" a month with the girls (camping, canoeing, amusement park, etc.).
Continue my one date a week with my D's (one-on-one date that rotates between the 4 of them).
Make D's feel as special and loved as is humanly possible.
Be an example for my girls, and for who they should look for in a mate after they grow up.
Volunteer.
Practice patience daily.
Go to church every week.
Consistently meet my nutritional and exercise goals. (No self sabotaging!)
Start playing basketball again (herniated disc dependent).
Connect with old friends (been trying) or make new ones (not easy/enjoyable for me).
Pray more.
Trust God more.
Help others.
Forgive XW truly and completely.
Be the best version of me.
That's just what started popping into my head.
-PM
Your list might be a good start to a new thread!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
