Originally Posted By: Spartan
I hope you don't think I'm bashing you or trying to push you too hard to move on.


Not in the least. I very much appreciate your - and everyone's - thoughts, input, and perspective. Genuinely.

Originally Posted By: Spartan
What are some of your short term goals?

Some of these are more tangible than others, but here are some of my goals that come to mind:
  • Move to a larger place for me and the girls.
  • Finish up my MBA (Dec).
  • GAL (hopefully facilitated by the above bullet point).
  • Get promoted.
  • Get a larger vehicle.
  • Go on one "excursion" a month with the girls (camping, canoeing, amusement park, etc.).
  • Continue my one date a week with my D's (one-on-one date that rotates between the 4 of them).
  • Make D's feel as special and loved as is humanly possible.
  • Be an example for my girls, and for who they should look for in a mate after they grow up.
  • Volunteer.
  • Practice patience daily.
  • Go to church every week.
  • Consistently meet my nutritional and exercise goals. (No self sabotaging!)
  • Start playing basketball again (herniated disc dependent).
  • Connect with old friends (been trying) or make new ones (not easy/enjoyable for me).
  • Pray more.
  • Trust God more.
  • Help others.
  • Forgive XW truly and completely.
  • Be the best version of me.

That's just what started popping into my head.

-PM


M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds

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