'I think sometimes, when they sense we may be giving up, they toss out a few crumbs to keep us on the line.'
Agree. This is one of the confusing parts. If they have given up and are done, then why keep throwing out the crumbs? But I guess your other point answers this......
'I doubt W is really sure what she wants yet, and you are making a great case for her sticking with you'
Thank you! although they do a great job of convincing us otherwise
'Oh, and Wendy's post re the possible A made a lot of sense. Thanks Wendy!'
Thanks to you all on this. It is something I really value on here.....that I get to hear both points of view on a decision I am struggling with.....and it is these types of decision that I feel I have to get right or risk starting back at square 1.
