And last night, again.. he texted me telling me that I needed to be out of the house all day on Saturday so that he could bring his GFs kids over to swim. I told him I couldnt as I was going to be preparing for a birthday party that our roommate was throwing for her BF. (He has already given permission for this event) He got belligerent, and after simply telling him there was no reason they couldnt be here when I was here, he said, "Youve been running around town calling my GF a homewrecking whore, I dont want to be anywhere near you, and I certainly dont want her kids around you." And... it went all downhill from there.. I ended up in a sobbing mess, and he ended telling me that he knew I only stayed with him for his money.
Incidentally... We do have a very comfortable life. One income in California is unheard of, let alone in an area that we are in. He works extremely hard for our large home, horses, property, etc. However, we are no Rockefellers, and he doesnt do manual labor.. He is an IT Executive. His spending habits have landed us in some pretty hot water in the past, and its all catching up to us now.
M:42 H:40 T: 18yrs M: 14yrs Open R/M: 18 years D19 S24 From PM 1st S 6 '08 Reconciled 8 '08 H BD, separated 5/9/13 Filed for S on 6/12/13 H committed to monogamous GF now