I hear ya on the life changing moment that BD was. I remember the feeling that I lost everything important to me in life. It was the catalyst to force change in my life. As someone tells me often, we had to do all the wrong things to learn what the right things are and how to live them consistently. It was a hell of a price to pay but I'm happy with me and still hold hope for sitch...
Originally Posted By: PatientMan
But yes, I'm questioning what I am supposed to do. I want to be in a place where I have moved forward and am good in life, but not moved so far past her that I can't come back. I don't know if that's possible once I take the first step in that direction, so I'm apprehensive to take it. The process has already begun without me allowing it, so if I actually go along with it I'm not sure what's going to happen.
Like Mach said, I don't think it's all or nothing. I truly don't think I'll ever not love or cherish my w. It also doesn't mean that while I'm moving forward it doesn't mean I have to lose hope. From your words on here my guess is you will always have feelings for your W also which is perfectly fine in my opinion.
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I guess what I'm saying is, I know where I want to go, I just don't trust that I won't change my mind once I get started on that path. I'm afraid the path will change me, so I stand here stuck. And you all are trying to help me, and maybe you're all right. But maybe not. I don't know.
Let me ask you this, how is standing here stuck helping you, or your sitch?
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