"One of her concerns she talked to me about when BD was she wanted to feel taken care of. If i dont help her out with a couple of bills will she then resent me even more?"
Let me put it in as simple a way as possible. She's leaving you. Why do you need to take care of her any longer? And besides, most women that say that mean that they want to be "emotionally" secure not necessarily financially. And it's part of the script.
"or doesn't it matter since she is the one who filed for divorce?"
Doesn't matter.
"Besides GAL, what should i be doing with my sitch between now and when D is final? Act as if?"
Do you understand the meaning behind GAL? It means to go and get back your self-esteem that was lost by taking your mind and heart off of your W. While she chooses a path that is destructive, YOU choose a path that nurtures. Even if it's to make yourself a better dad and man and doesn't include her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
