Dont know what to do...

[~ kd ~]

Just some housecleaning as I see Cadet is linking your other topics here.

AS posted to you in your "roommates" topic:

So, my roommate is taking bits of phone conversations, and conversations with friends, twisting them pulling them out of context and then relaying them to my husband with a negative spin... this infuriates my husband and pushes him further towards obtaining an attorney, and forcing me out of the house.

You know your RM is talking to H, so adjust your approach in two ways:

1) DO NOT have ANY conversations with anyone about your H whether it's in person or on the phone if RM is there.

2)DO have MANY conversations with others about how great you're doing, what your GAL activities are, how much fun you're having, how good you feel, how much weight you've lost (etc. etc.) when RM is around. THIS is the kind of info you want relayed to your H. Let him hear about how happy/ content you are, make him wonder what you're up to, what your secret is.

I also dont know if H can legally force me out of the house...

Probably not, but you should consult with a L on this as it varies from state-to-state, and especially from country-to-country if you're not in the US.