???Surprise text from W??? She is on her trip with the AP so I absolutely did not expect to hear from her. Especially since her last letter to me was that she wanted minimal contact while they were together so she could "see how she feels when she is with her." Well, I received a text from her today:

W: Hey. Just checking in with you to see how u are! I hope good. Looks like BFF is in town. Hope that went well. Give the dog some kisses!!!

We went back and forth a few times. She let me know that she and her BFF had been in a fight last week. I told her I had not idea they were arguing and that I was sorry if her BFF being here hurt her. (My wife had given BFF permission to ask me if she could come visit a couple of weeks ago)

My W said she was "...fine with her being here and to have fun. Please don't let my sh*t affect you. Go have fun!" I told her "You're a good one. I'm always in your corner."

It was a different kind of exchange. I'm trying to process... not mind read, but understand. I don't really get it. But then, there's so much about her choices these last 2 years that I don't get at either.

Me(F):40 WAW:44
T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
S:2/13
Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13
W moves home to R: 10/13