T - I hear you on the time thing, I really do, but to borrow from your analogy, doesn't an addict have to own up to an addiction? Let's say I confronted her about smoking and she said that she stopped, we told C she stopped, yet I knew she was smoking just as much, just sneaking them more. Wouldn't I say something in that case? Or at least say something to C who thinks we are past this issue?

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"