She seemed uncomfortable with the initiating part, much more comfortable with the rejection part. This would make sense due to our historical roles. But overall she thought it was a "dumb" exercise and didn't put a lot of effort into it overall.
The first night, I was pretty awkward in the initiating part as well. Last night, I tried to be much more specific as to what I wanted to do with her. She was going to reject me, but I was going to paint her an enticing picture first!
Funny thing was last night I thought she wanted to skip the exercise and just ML instead based on what she said, so instead of politely rejecting her I said "sounds good" and she said "aren't you supposed to say no?"
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
