Ha ha Raine, you better believe the finger was out and in full effect Monday night! Not to mention all the f, c, b, w bombs I was dropping in private!
Although this hurts, I can see how this needs to happen for many reasons. They will both be getting what they want, and I have a feeling it will not turn out how they think.
Now realistically, I know they will have some fun at the beach. Of course.
BUT... I feel like this trip may be an attempt at CPR for a dying A. They are breaking out everything, including the beach vacation defibrillator to try to save it.
Whether its sooner or later though, it is going to die. I don't think it will be pretty either...
Linda, you had said something about me sending him pictures. I have thought about this. I will send him a few pictures IF he bothers to ask me to. Otherwise, I feel like it could be seen as pursuit or an attempt to make him feel guilty. I'm not going there.
But I don't want to be a big b!tch either, and "punish" him by refusing to send him pics if he asks. So either way, I know what I'm going to do.
Thank you for your story, UW. I think that while many facets of their personalities change during this time, there are some things that don't.
He still HATES anything that makes him itchy. His itchiness is a constant source of misery for him. So picturing him all sweaty and covered in sand - interesting.
I still don't know what the real story is with the trip - who knows, he may be golfing for a day or two with the guys - but not five. Plus, they are missing golf league with the additional day on Monday, so that wouldn't make much sense. A golf league when most of the guys are away golfing???
There are so many things about her that are eventually going to be too much for him. I think they have both attempted to pretzel themselves into something they're not in an attempt to please the other.
But you can't do that long term. It's impossible. Both of their issues are going to come out.
Anyway....
I know you will appreciate this ~
So yesterday, he was supposed to go out with his brother after work. I asked my parents to watch boys for a few hours while I finished shopping for S2's birthday (which is Friday). I was surprised to come home and find H here.
He said his neck was hurting and he was tired, so he decided to come home. Or maybe twinkle twat had to cancel lol!
When my parents dropped the boys off, my mom made sure to mention, in front of H, that if we decided to go out for our anniversary on Saturday, that they would be more than happy to babysit.
Ummm... Awkward!!!!
Now if I was angry and wanted to smash H's clubs with a hammer, my mom has more of a temper where she would use a sledgehammer, then a jack hammer, then maybe even a blow torch!
My parents don't know about the beach trip yet. Oh boy.
Well, back to work for this Viking.
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
