You have come to a great board to get support. This site is obviously operated by and based on the books "Divorce Busting" and the more recent "Divorce Remedy".
I'm guessing that availability of these books in Malaysia may be difficult at the stores, but you can order them from online shops like Amazon. It is really recommended that you get at least the DR book as soon as you can.
To help get you stabalized, read the Newcomers forum topic called "Sandi's rules" that will help you navigate this initial time. As you emotionally detach from your W's words and actions, it will allow you to be more pro-active at working on yourself and possibly saving your M.
You will read and be told about GAL and 180s. These will also be very important for you to work on.
Please keep posting and asking questions and you will be off moderation as soon as possible and the great board members here will support you to the best of your ability.
