I recently posted my story on the MMSLP forum last month. Since then I've got reply after reply that they think my W had a sexual relationship with OM last year and has been lying to me this whole time.
It has been bothering me on and off, but today for whatever reason its at its worst. My stomach is in knots. And I'm sure it going to leak through to my interactions with my W.
I don't think my W lied to me, and is still lying to me, but who knows? During BD she told me she didn't me things because she didn't want to hurt me. She said felt entitled for some reason to the EA. (it was EA with kissing, not sure how to label that)
She gave me trickle truth at BD 1 year ago. She gave me trickle truth in October when I found out she called him a few times. Then last week I find out from OMW that she sent him pics during time of BD, but at the time she said she didn't.
I asked her at BD last May if there was anything else she needed to me that happened, she said there wasn't and that she's told me everything.
I asked her in October when I found out she called him a few times if there was anything else (PA) that happened. She said no.
I asked her last week during discussion of getting OMW text if there was anything else she hasn't told me. She said there wasn't.
Since we had our talk on the weekend everything has been good. Lots of affection. Last night went we went to bed she took my hand, held it to her face and fell asleep.
Do I sit her down in a calm manner to admit I'm still having trust issues and that some triggers have me questioning if she's been telling me the truth the whole time?
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing
