No he did not deny that he saw her. He actually admitted to seeing her more then I was aware of. I never said I would divorce if he saw her. I said I would not tolerate their continuted "friendship". I am still willing to work on us if she is no longer in the picture but I do not want an open marriage. I really do not want the divorce but as I said I do not want to be a doormat. It hurts to be around him.
I made the appointment yesterday and emailed him the details. I so do not want this but I dont want to be hurt anymore I want to be happy I just wanted it to be with him. Anyway, he did not acknowlegde my email until last night when I saw him. He said for now all he was going to say was that he got it. He looked awful. He was very nice to me last night. Doing things he knows I like but not saying anything to me. I really don't think he wants it either.
I have thought about packing his stuff and doing as you suggested or just dropping it as his truck but his daughter lives with us and she is old enough to wonder. Even though she suspects, I don't want to tell her.
