Taking My Space - Giving Spouse Theirs

[needgrace]

When I GAL with new friends and new experiences that are my own, it's much easier than when I am with our mutual friends, especially the close ones, doing things we normally did as a married couple with them. Last night's GAL was wonderful but really hard because of that.

I find that so so true too

Love the use of mantras and trusting that God is in control.. Some nights when I would have a wandering, wondering mind before bed, I would repeat to myself "I am letting go, she is all yours, God, as am i."

later i started adding that i am letting her go bc if i love her, i want her to be happy...

now i rarely struggle with my thoughts at bedtime... it has been quite a progression.

you are doing so so well RT, keep the focus on you