So we are 3 days into the work week. First time H has been home since I upped from 2 days a week to 3. He has done the dishes twice, cooked dinner once, bathed the kids twice. Who is this guy????
Last night he was showering and I was getting the kids into the bath and we were chatting. He mentioned his friend had gotten a job, I said "Oh, cool. Good for him." He responded "Didn't I tell you? Wait, that was when you stopped talking to me. I have to tell you, that was the best thing in the world. I was already crazy and miserable, but once you were totally out of the picture...I could see that its all me. I'm so grateful you did that." A very good conversation was had, then he suggested we go out for ice cream. Ok, this is a shock. My H gets up for work very early. He is crazy about his sleep and it has gotten so bad over the past year. In bed before I got the kids in bed. It was 7, so I was shocked. The kids were so excited and we had a blast. He actually stayed up until I went to bed. Seriously...this is like a different guy. Then he asked me out on a date saturday. I accepted.
Today is national running day. H and I are both runners, but around the time his A started up, he stopped doing alot of family runs. We ran together sporatically. I said I wanted to get a run in tonight after work and he asked to come.
Day by day. We'll see.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
