Not confused...looking inward

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Old thread - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2355092&page=10

I have to thank everyone who posted a response on what happened to me yesterday...a common theme amongst you all was a positive that I failed to see...which was H asking for my advice on a problem he was having. Strange isn't it...I didn't see it that way...always so good to get an outside perspective.

I am not putting any weight into it though, it could have been habit, or it could have been that he valued my opinion, or it could have been a way to contact me without seeming needy himself. Who knows. What I do know, is that the rest of the night and this morning went as it has with no change...although H seemed a little more "happy" this morning with the boys.

So as the title of my new thread goes, I am looking inward...I need to figure out what/how to go from here...and I want to touch on some things that were said by all of you yesterday...will pop in shortly.