MrBond,

Ok, i understand.

I have two questions:

One of her concerns she talked to me about when BD was she wanted to feel taken care of. If i dont help her out with a couple of bills will she then resent me even more? or doesn't it matter since she is the one who filed for divorce?

Besides GAL, what should i be doing with my sitch between now and when D is final? Act as if?


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13