Just saying hello.

[prometheus]

As far as the script you are hearing, be careful when you catch yourself saying the same script or speaking in absolutes. Lest you find YOU are becoming the WAS.

I NEVER talk in absolutes! Seriously though, i learned early on in life not to do this. In fact i think i might lean the other way to the point of being hesitant to make assertions, and to deal in an excessively open ended way...i hope that you get what i mean here...am having trouble articulating it.

I can imagine that you are having trouble thinking of things that kept you together. One exercise a counsellor will provide in M therapy is making a list of things your like about your spouse. It could be anything to the colour of their eyes, the way they laugh, being a great cook, being a loving parent, etc. Something you might try on your own.

May i ask what the object of that exercise is?

You indicate that you've worked on some of the complaints. Are you talking about the ones you listed (sulky, etc) or different ones? What have you done to work on the ones you have been and how can you work on the ones you haven't?

Different ones...have to run back to work now...sorry for the rush, and thank you.