"how bond? how is it within my control? Our hours are roughly 9am-9pm (flex as we have cell phones and are on call 7 days), as required by client appointments."
Are these STATED hours or things you just made up? You're a partner right? Well set your hours if you don't like being on call.
"Most times he "expects" me to be at ALL appt's.... then other times, last second he will say he will go do it, without me."
I don't know how many times I can tell you this. You still say that he "expects" you. Forget about that. What do YOU want? When do YOU want to work? Besides I haven't seen any real indication that he "expects" you to work the same time he does. You keep saying based on what you think he implies. The bottom line is that you just need to do and work when you want to. NO EXCUSES.
I'm guarantee its NOT mindreading... when the words have come out of his mouth exactly as said. He has used "handle it" and "expected" and "Know better"..."
More excuses from you. He's not your father. You don't have to listen to him, yet you constantly do.
"also.. what are your thoughts on his "work only" mode? his lack of sleep, then tired all day, upset stomach issues, exhausted, taking minimal "breaks in the hammock" while slaving himself to yard work as his break between regular job/clients...living only to work with the forcasted image of one day getting to relax? "
My thoughts are that it doesn't fr*cken matter what my thoughts are. AND it doesn't matter what YOUR thoughts are either. He CHOOSES to work and live like this. It's HIS business NOT YOURS. And any way, everytime you intervene he pushes you away. So you stay out of his sights.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
