KD nope I haven't told her the logistics at all. I actually haven't told her anything yet. The reason is I don't want her to think it is some sort of tactic to get her back. I am going to Alanon for my codependency problems. Tired of allowing her emotions control mine.
Bond yes you're right. I have still have fear of D. The fear is more around losing the family unit not losing W. I mean who the FN hell would want to be married to my W right now? Nobody. Not even me.
I am in counseling right now for anxiety and codependency.
