When you announced that you wanted a D, you hit LRT already. Did he deny that he saw the OW when you were gone? That was a boundary for you and he stepped over it. You have to enforce it or else he's going to know that you're not going to follow through. Have you thought about packing his things and dropping them off at the OW's house?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.