also.. what are your thoughts on his "work only" mode? his lack of sleep, then tired all day, upset stomach issues, exhausted, taking minimal "breaks in the hammock" while slaving himself to yard work as his break between regular job/clients...living only to work with the forcasted image of one day getting to relax?

>>>this is the worst that I have ever seen him get. He is so deep in this mode.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)