"My anxiety stems from her hiding her phone and receiving txt again from men yet again (non detached I know)
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No, your anxiety stems from fear. You are generating that. You have to do something about that.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER