It's been a while since I've been active on this board. I got real good at GAL so good it made it easier for my W to slip away. I made friends with all sorts of people and remained faithful until our D papers were drawn up. I will not go back to her even if she said she would work it out. There is way too much hurt between us.
We still talk but mostly about our D15. I L her but not like I use to.
In DB'ing I feel GAL if very important. I think going dark should be used as a last resort. I also feel that changing things here and there is a good DB'ing techniques.