Also, I don't know if NOT getting a divorce is an option -- when he's occasionally expressed nostalgia or whatever, it's normally in the context of a larger conversation about questions he has about the process. He seems pretty sincere in his desire for one.
Me: 30 H: 29 M: 2 yrs T: 5 years BD: 12/14/12 Divorce talk begins 1/6/13 I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since
